Walk the Plank
“Avast, ye scurvy dogs! The crushing oblivion of Davey Jones’ locker awaits! Walk the plank, or feel the steely kiss o’ me blade!”
I can’t emphasize enough that youth ministry and piracy are in no way connected. But when it comes to pioneering a new ministry – whether a youth group or a church plant – there comes a moment when you’ve got to walk the plank and dive in. “Leap of faith” also applies, but as a fan of Pirates of the Caribbean, I like the pirate imagery.
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“A safe place to take risks.”
When asked what I would consider to be a foundational building block in youth ministry, that’s what came to mind. Upon further reflection, I can confidently strike out the word “youth,” and apply it to any age level.
The deeper questions revolved around defining what makes it a “safe place,” and – crucially – who’s responsible to create and maintain it. The answer to both questions is “leaders.” Our example, not our words, will establish the group ethos, the default setting.
Old teaching adage: “More is caught than taught.” Transparency, vulnerability, and authenticity are intangibles. As leaders, we take the first step – like walking the plank – to demonstrate them.
- We don’t have all the answers, so we won’t act as if we do. If anything, our group ethos should welcome – and even provoke – open dialogue about doubts and questions. Theirs and ours.
- If we need prayer, we’ll ask for it. No prayer or pray-er is too small.
- We’re all on the same faith journey. No superstars need apply – you’ll fall off your pedestal eventually.
- Know the difference between “manipulation” and “influence.” Avoid the first like the plague, and be wise about the second.
“Everyone who is fully trained will be like their teacher.”
~ Jesus of Nazareth (Luke 6:40)
